Thursday, October 5, 2017

On Latex

Let's see what I know about latex: too shiny; transparent; too clingy; always tight fitting; comes in ridiculous colors. It has a range of properties I don't find appealing. It's definitely not my choice of fabric. But wait, it's actually not fabric. See a short article on MJTrends for details

Now let's see some dresses on Atsuko Kudo's site HERE

I don't know what to say because these are some really nice cuts and the colors are to die for. And yet, when I look at the semi-transparent flesh Alejandra dress, all I can think of how it would fare in the rain.

It's been raining on and off for days. As I waited for the bus the other day, I did not notice the large puddle of water by the curb. Then suddenly, out of nowhere, the bus pulled in and splashed the water high up as it stopped. And before I knew it, my jeans got drenched up to the knees.

At that moment, I wished my jeans were made of latex. By the time I got home and right after I peeled them off, I changed my mind yet again and was a latex fan no more. My fandom lasted less than 20 minutes. As for the dress, I still love the cut but I'd prefer something similar in fabric. 

Thursday, September 21, 2017

Rainy Days

The best thing that can happen to you on a rainy day is to bump into a cheerful group of Danish visitors. You chat. They make you smile. What's more: they might even visit your blog. At which point you realize that you haven't updated it for ages.

Vær hilset! Det var hyggeligt at møde dig. Gå til: 2015 January 

Wednesday, May 3, 2017


This bracelet is about 7 years old. As you can see on the image below, some shells are broken. It was discounted at 50% because of that. I’ve never meant to fix it. I like the way it is.

I wanted to know what type of shell my bracelet is made of. So I went through online catalogs trying to identify it. The first question I tried to answer was: Is this a freshwater or a saltwater shell? I settled on saltwater shell. I figured it must be found in abundance because of the many pieces needed to make one jewelry item priced so cheap. Therefore, it must be a common species.

I could picture an island from a tropical zone with a sandy shore line dotted with shells; a place in the middle of the ocean that looks like paradise. But reality kicked in when I saw the documentary Plastics in Paradise about the situation on the Cocos Keeling Islands. It turns out that plastic pollution is getting worse as plastic makes its way to even the most remote spots on our planet.  
It’s a pretty good deal: no air fare (as it’s being carried by the currents) and some of the best beaches for accommodation. Too bad we are paying the price as the shorelines get covered not in shells but plastic debris. I wish I knew how to live a life without plastic! It’s not only disposable plastic I am concerned about, but any other type that we use on a daily basis. Just thinking about the sheer quantity of plastics we are surrounded by makes me really concerned. Could this keyboard I am typing on be made of anything else but plastic? How about phones, home appliances, plane parts, etc.? The list is endless.


Thursday, April 27, 2017

No Grammar, No Cry

The scene is a basement of a derelict building. I'm in a dimly lit room with a dozen others. I’m wearing a white T-shirt with the caption NO GRAMMAR, NO CRY. We are sitting in a circle on some creaky old chairs. It's a familiar scene. No one wants to break the silence. It’s my turn to step out on a podium to speak. All eyes are on me. I freeze up for a brief moment (which actually feels like forever). 
I take a deep breath, clear my throat and say, “Hi, my name is Maria. And I'm a grammar junkie.” I pause to look around the room. I see folding tables and stale donuts on a plastic tray.

“Hi Maria,” the others say in unison. Everyone is here. It’s the regular weekly meeting of the group called Grammarholic Anonymous. I take another deep breath before I start my tale about my recent struggle.

Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Grammar Rules

I love the ocean. It’s seemingly endless and can be unpredictable.

I love grammar. A wise man told me once that grammar doesn’t exist. That I found disheartening. I wish he'd said, "We do not know if grammar exists or not, but it seems reasonable to assume that it does."

Grammar is almost like a living thing; mysterious and messy for its own sake. Sometimes, there are no rules. (Plus no freedom in how to use the non-existent rules.) Other times, it fully contradicts its own rules. No one knows why, it’s just the way it is. 

Grammar is a repeating offender in making rules fly out the window. And no one can say: “Hey you, contradictory grammar rule, you don't make any sense," because it actually does. And everyone agrees on that. 

I love grammar. It’s so much more than all of its seemingly endless rules combined. And it can be unpredictable. Just like the ocean.

Thursday, April 20, 2017


I used to thrift on a regular basis and I’ve always had my preferred places to go. As my favorite store switched to a lower quality stock, I hardly visit it anymore. What I like about thrifting is that each item I see on the racks is one of a kind. And who could resist that? Besides, by buying second hand, I’ve been doing my part in saving energy and resources required to produce new items. It’s good to give a used item a second chance to prolong its lifespan. I was sure I’ve been doing the right thing.

And what about maintenance? I saw no difference for new items or old ones in this regard. When doing laundry, I save electricity using lower temperature settings. I also save on water by capturing and reusing gray water. I thought there wasn’t much else to do there until I bumped into guppyfriend and learned about microfiber pollution. With each washing cycle, microfibers are released into the environment. What guppyfriend came up with is a wash bag that wouldn’t let those tiny particles seep into the water to be discharged with gray water.

The more I thought about it, the more I started to see microfibers as a curse. I could only see 2 options as to how to avoid microfiber pollution: to use natural fibers only that do not harm our water ways as they break down or, to fundamentally change the way we wash our clothes and eliminate water from the process. And I kept thinking... "Would tiny particles coming from natural fibers make any difference for aquatic life? Should guppies be on a “natural fiber” diet?" Even if the technology exists for waterless washing machines, we are still a long way from implementing it. It seems that guppyfriend offers a simple solution to the problem. 

GUPPY FRIEND is a German startup from Berlin, founded by LANGBRETT

Sunday, April 9, 2017

Master of Her Craft

I entered the shop from the street and had a short conversation with the owner about her job. That’s what she told me: She was born with a needle in her hand and she has been sewing as far as she could remember. She never makes the same dress twice. Nor does she create the exact replica of a dress from a picture; her design would always be different in some detail.

I asked her if she made coats from scratch. She was 12 years old when she first cut a sewing pattern of a coat, she said with pride, but she can’t do it anymore because of her strained hand. I couldn’t blame her if she never wanted to make coats again. I once tried to take an old coat apart and the task proved to be too difficult.

It took her 3 years to complete her studies as a tailor and another 5 years of apprenticeship to become a master craftsman. She has more than 50 years experience designing and making garments. When I asked her about other family members possessing the same set of skills she gave a definite no. Not even her grandchildren would show any interest in sewing, she added.